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Let's talk the R Word

            Hey you guys! I'm starting this blog off today thanking you all for the love and support in my blogs. A lot of you all have stopped me in school hallways saying "I like your blogs", "You're inspirational keep it up", or "When are you posting the new one?" , so thank you to each and everyone of you guys that take the time out your busy lives to read my blogs. I really appreciate it.

           Let's talk the R word. Yeah that's right relationships. Relationships are one of the most important pillars in life. There are various types of relationships whether it be you and your family, you and and your significant other, you and your friends, and most importantly the relationship you have with yourself . A lot of people don't understand the volume of relationships and how important it is to stay far away from toxic ones.
           The key to mastering relationships is to start with yourself. The way you see and view yourself reflects on others. So let's fold back the covers and take every layer of ourselves off and get right to it. You can't love and appreciate someone else if you don't love and appreciate yourself. A lot of people keep putting themselves in situations with another person that has the same upsetting results.
I'll admit to doing that time and time again. Not with a significant other but with friends. They'll do something I don't like and then like most people I question myself. Because, if I am not getting the results I want to them I'm not doing something right, and that's not relationships that's LIFE.
        Accept yourself, accept your flaws, your curves, you intelligence, your beauty, your eyes, your height, your hands, your breath, your weight, accept YOU. Be comfortable with you before anyone else is. Your confidence is sexy and it attracts people way more then you think whether romantically or not. Use it and don't loose it. It's been proven that when your relationship with yourself is strong your relationships with others becomes stronger too.
        So, stop doubting yourself because your boyfriend/girlfriend/friend/family member does not appreciate  you for you and begin to appreciate yourself for those same reasons. Get your confidence back and watch your sexiness come back.
                                                               ~Stay Beautiful Beauties
 

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